International Girl Child’s Day

International Day of the Girl Child

*#GirlForceUnscriptedUnstoppable**

RIGHTS OF THE GIRL CHILD: WHITHER THE GIRL CHILD?

The fourth World Conference on Women In 1995 made some giant strides with the adoption of the Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action was adopted, the most visionary blueprint for the empowerment of women and girls. Some 2 decades ago before today’s girls were conceived.

HAS THE STORY CHANGED FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE?

For this year’s International Day of the Girl Child, the theme “GirlForce: Unscripted and Unstoppable,” is apt. It jolts us out of our comfort zone to reminisce on the past, the present and chart a course for the future. To celebrate the achievements by, with and for girls since the adoption of the Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action and the passage of the Convention on the Rights of the Child in 1990.

FAILED OR FULFILLED PROMISES?
Many commitments made to girls are left unfulfilled with the following sad statistics:

Each year, 12 million girls under 18 are married;

130 million girls worldwide are still out of school;

And approximately 15 million adolescent girls aged 15-19 have experience forced sex.

4 out of every 10 girls under 10 years have been defiled

More than a quarter of UK girls show signs of depression

About a quarter teenage girls are suicidal

Terror has been unleashed on girls

We have more than 1.1 billion girls in the world.

They are blamed, cursed, abused and or tortured, disowned, abandoned, rejected, thrown out of their homes, shamed, stigmatized, beaten, exploited, discriminated against, pawned, dehumanized, sold……..

Are these not enough reasons for our girls to be depressed and suicidal?

The girls are crying out for help saying “we’ve had enough.”

GIRL FORCE around the world are calling to uphold the commitments made nearly 25 years ago, and create a safe, secure and better future for all.

Girls are not safe in the home, at school, worship centers, even in the community.

Where then are they safe?

Where and who do they run to for help?

What are the structures available for these victims of failed society?

IS IT A CRIME TO BE BORN A GIRL?

WHO WILL PROTECT THE GIRL CHILD?

WHO WILL EMPOWER THE GIRL CHILD?

Ponder on all these!

TAKE ACTION NOW!!!!
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A state of emergency need to be declared on the Girl child issues deliberately and intentionally prioritized their welfare and interest before we lose the future mothers of generations.

We all have a role to play

Take action to build a more peaceful and prosperous world for all

Spread the message with your friends, family, and community!
Talk about it!
Engage by using these hashtags online:
#dayofthegirl
#GenerationEquality
#díadelaniña
#GeneraciónIgualdad (Spanish); #journéedelafille
#GénérationÉgalité (French)
#GirlsNotBrides
#FemaleTheFuture
#GirlsNotSlaves
#GirlsNotSexObjects

11 October is #dayofthegirl!

ACT NOW!

*Encourage girls to pursue their dreams*

*Uplift their self-esteem always *

**Celebrate all their talents*.

*Empower the Girl Child*

**Protect the Girl Child*

*Listen to the Girl Child*

Girl, you are the future, the light of the world, the salt to the earth and the beauty of the world! Let every pain fuel your passion to succeed and be your ladder to greatness!!!!
YOU ARE UNSCRIPTED AND UNSTOPPABLE!!!!!
BEATEN NOT BROKEN, SPURRED!!!!

Raising My Voice to Excel: Words of Wisdom for the Girl Child

INTRODUCTION

This is to commemorate year 2020 International Day of the Girl Child.

For a raised voice to excel, be powerful and very effective, it has to contain certain crucial elements. It’s no wonder therefore that not every raised voice excels. How therefore, can the voice of the girl-child be made effective so that when raised, it can excel?

Here are four essential wisdom pillars, I believe if wisely activated and utilised, would remarkably transform the voice of the girl-child and make her highly successful in her endeavour.

The Four Wisdom Pillars.

  1. AWARENESS: An effective voice must be fully conscious and possess relevant knowledge:
  • The Girl child must know (who she is), that she is a human being and very special one.
  • She must be conscious of her environs and society; She must know her rights and know they would be infringed upon.
  • She must know what to do whenever those rights are trampled on.
  • She must learn and know how to rightly defend herself.
  • She must be aware that most of the time, silence is a killer; that to be silent could be tragic.
  1. CLARITY: The effective voice must be clear.
  • She must have clarity of mind, clarity of pursuit and clarity of purpose.
  • She must say what she means and mean what she says.
  1. RESPONSIBILITY:
  • The effective voice is responsible, focus, studious and is determined to excel.
  • The effective voice responds appropriately, behaves responsibly and is not afraid to seek justice, take-up important duties, or face challenges!
  1. COURAGEOUS: The effective voice is courageous.
  • She must courageously pursue challenging dreams and aspirations; takes on uncommon academic pursuits despite discriminations and gears up to change negative narratives about her gender.
  • She must be courageously innovative; seeks to be technologically savvy, have the courage to say ‘NO!’ to abusers, sexual predators and discriminations of all kinds.

AWARENESS/ KNOWLEDGE

Some prevalent issues of which the Girl-Child must have knowledge:
Gender-based Violence: This is violence directed against a person because of their gender. Below are the ways It Affects The Girl Child:

Sexual Violence: Any sexual act involving a girl-child (with or without her consent) is unlawful. Sexual violence takes the form of rape, sexual assault, defilement etc

Psychological Violence: This can take the form of, coercion, verbal insult, intimidation or harassment.

Economic Violence: Any act or behaviour which causes economic harm to the girl Child. Economic violence can take the form of, resisting the girl child rights to education or her right to be paid where she’s trading to earn a living.

Cultural Oppression: This includes; Child Marriage, Body shaming, FGM –Female Genital Mutilation- Female circumcision is a violation of girls human rights.
Gender Discrimination-prejudicial Treatments:  This includes inequalities of all kinds and all kinds-of stigmatisation.

“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”– Martin Luther King.

CLARITY

The human voice is an integral part of our humanity. It is an actively visible emblem that must be lawfully, maximally and personally utilized for each of us to excel. It is why clarity is so important. Having the capacity to project appropriate sounds at the right time can make a critical difference in the way a human, adult or child is perceived and treated. Sometimes, it makes a difference between life and death!

For instance, there are many ways in which ‘NO!’ can be said ineffectively. To prevent abuse on your person, you must learn to say ‘No!’ appropriately.  Do not say, “No!” vaguely or insufficiently. Do not say it shyly. Do not say it giggling! Firmly reject the act that makes you uncomfortable, even if such act is from a family member.

  • Say it loudly. Repeat it again and again.
  • Shout it out and mean it!  Be assertive! Then follow up with Actions. Reject the act of abuse, walk away and run away from the scene.
  • Tell somebody about the abuse. Swiftly gets support as early as possible.
    Make it an habit to report abuse of any kind.
  • You cannot practise this too often enough. Shout. Do not be afraid to speak out!

RESPONSIBILITY

BE Responsible. One very good way to be responsible in attitude is to focus on your studies and Avoid Broken Focus.

Today, many challenges betide the girl child. Practically, it seems the odds are against her. This we see in the increasing statistics on Teenage pregnancy and the waning good morality in our society.

Consequently, we have more sexually charged atmosphere and increase in criminal activities.  More than ever before, the environment is dangerous to the girl child.

Unfortunately, by her attitude, she seems to have resigned to becoming much less of what she is created to be.

Broken focus is caused by the force of distraction. Distraction arises when a person is captivated by things that distract the mind from focusing on the most important mission at hand. For instance, the following would break the focus of the girl-child.

  • The Social Media.
  • Distractions from opposite sex/gender.
  • Peer competition and pressure–to impress the opposite sex in class/ school.
  • Inappropriate relationships – leading to sexual and criminal activities.
    Premature Sex
    .

Use your school time only to learn rather than doing rubbish like passing love notes. Concentrate on your studies, getting all the education you need. Broken focus will kill your dreams. For me, seeing the death of the lofty dreams of a girl-child is as sad as burying a loved one.

You have greatness in you. You have tremendous potential! You were not born to waste your sweet smelling fragrance on the desert air. You were born to realise your full potential.

BE COURAGEOUS

  • It takes courage to uphold high moral values regardless of the shifting cultural mores.
  • Breaking the gender barriers because you’re determined to succeed despite the odds is tremendously courageous.
  • Speaking out against any form of injustice is courageous.
  • Doing right when you are told to do wrong, is absolutely courageous.

As a girl-child, you must learn to discern:-

  • When an instruction is working against the values you have been taught.
  • When an instruction has the potential to do more harm than good. 
  • And when what you are told to do demeans your dignity, makes you uncomfortable and distorts good values and good morality.

The above are but few of the essential wisdom pillars that would transform and make the girl-child excel in all her life’s endeavours. Activating them will give her a good start to raise an effective voice in any society. Practising them doggedly will eventually enable her to excel maximally. This will ultimately bring her honour, confidence and respect.

11th October 2020.

©Tejumade A. Sijuwade-Oke, Esq

 Legal Practitioner.

“We Must Continue to Protect and Preserve the Rights and Interests of Our Girls”: Ag. President of AWLA Nigeria Commemorates Int’l Day of the Girl Child

The Acting President of the African Women Lawyers Association, AWLA, Nigeria, S. Adepeju Oduye-Quadri, has reiterated the need to maintain the tempo in the struggle for quality rights for girls in Africa.

Mrs. Oduye-Quadri, in a statement on Sunday, stated that “Every October 11 the world observes the International Day of the Girl Child in accordance with the UN declaration of 2011 that October 11 should be specifically observed as the international day of the girl child. Therefore it has now become a day to celebrate the uniqueness of the girl child as well as amplify the unique challenges the girl child is facing on a daily basis.

“The theme for this year 2020 is My Voice, Our Equal Future and it addresses the global call to action that we should:

  1. Improve the lives of girls and aspire to make their lives better wherever we are.
  2. Increase the need for girl activism.
  3. Demand for laws to free the girl child from sexual and gender  based violence, including the removal of cultural, social, educational and economic obstacles that are impeding their wellbeing and progress.
  4. In line with the aims of the 2030 Agenda for the SDGs that we should leave no one behind, it calls for a reflection and commitment on our responsibilities towards the girl child. For we are all stakeholders for the girl child. The Beijing Platform For Action also recently listed the protection of the girl child as one of the twelve (12) main areas of concern.

“In view of this, AWLA Nigeria therefore is calling out for a positive change in this regard, We must continue to strive to protect and preserve the rights and interests of our girls. The focus should be to generally secure the human rights of all girls even in this period of COVID-19 pandemic which exposed them to various challenges. Girl – child rape, defilement and abduction is still on the increase. It has become a scourge and the girl child is no longer safe. That is why the theme for this year is apt. let us raise our voices against the challenges they face so they can be safe and in turn, they will have the opportunity to excel now and in the future. Thank you all.” Oduye-Quadri said.

 

Background

In 1995 at the World Conference on Women in Beijing countries unanimously adopted the Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action – the most progressive blueprint ever for advancing the rights of not only women but girls. The Beijing Declaration is the first to specifically call out girls’ rights.

On December 19, 2011, United Nations General Assembly adopted Resolution 66/170 to declare October 11 as the International Day of the Girl Child, to recognize girls’ rights and the unique challenges girls face around the world.

The International Day of the Girl Child focuses attention on the need to address the challenges girls face and to promote girls’ empowerment and the fulfilment of their human rights.

Reflections on the International Day of the Girl- Child in Nigeria* By: Mandy Asagba & Oluwatomi Ajayi

It is common knowledge that girls’ progress equals family progress which in turn reflects on the progress of the nation. No wonder, the common saying that when a girl is educated, the society stands to benefit or that ‘getting at the girls has a far more powerful multiplying effect.’ Every year, specifically October 11 is a special day universally observed as the day of the girl-child.

 

This year 2016. the special emphasis is on the word ‘progress’. UNICEF’s current statistics shows there are about 1.1 billion girls in the world. However, in Nigeria, the Chairman of the National Population Commission (NPC), while celebrating the 2016 World Population Day in July 2016 stated that the population of the teenage girls between 13 and 19 years has increased to 13,787,755. A girl-child in this context is any young girl below the age of 18 years. This is in tandem with the definitions of a child as provided in the 1999 Constitution, the Child’s Rights Act (CRA) 2003, Lagos State Child Rights Law 2008 and other international instruments such as the Convention on the Rights of Child (CRC)1989, the African Charter on Human and Peoples’ Rights 1981 (ACHPR) etc.

Invariably the main vehicle of the girl-child progress is education which makes all the difference in her life. That is the key to sustainable development. Education as its catalyst encompasses everything as it means the girl-child has a right to enjoy all her basic rights listed in the child rights’ laws. She can therefore exercise her rights and responsibilities by speaking out; by being assertive yet disciplined; by making choices and weighing the options available in relation with her safety, future career, mental and physical well-being.

It is necessary to highlight the current challenges hindering the progress of the Nigerian girl-child which are obvious in the areas of sexual violence, cultural practices, religion, health, family matters education. Currently, about five million girls are said to currently out of school in Nigeria. There are also issues arising from conflict and insurgency (such as the abducted Chibok school girls), discrimination against the disabled girl-child and girls who live in rural areas, fundamental violation of girls’ human rights, parental preferences for the boy-child, the emerging technology-related violence against the girl-child and finally the weakness of legal and government policies affecting the girl-child.

Essentially, the rules of International Law regulate States Practice on the subject of the Girl-Child through the United Nations CRC 1989 which in Article 11(1) protects the child against illicit transfer abroad and failure to return them (trafficking in children). Articles 16 and 19 protects the privacy, honour, reputation and family life of a child and this includes protection from physical and mental violence, injury, abuse, neglect, exploitation and sexual abuse. There are equally other provisions against economic exploitation and activities that are harmful to the child’s development. Other provisions in the African Charter on the Rights and Welfare of the Child (ACRWC) provide affirmative actions for girls’ education while overriding harmful African customs, traditions or religious beliefs. It also grants girls the right to return to school after pregnancy.

Collectively, there is an urgent need for all of us to embark on girl-child attention policies in order to help them meet their potentials, being tomorrow’s useful adults, mothers, wives, working women, community change agents, etc. The ideal yardstick for the girl-child progress is to ensure that she is not used for trafficking and pornography. She should not hawk on the streets and be exposed to rape, veneral diseases or unwanted pregnancy. She should not be an overworked housekeeper, tortured, maltreated and denied education in the name of discipline. Parents in rural areas giving their daughters to family members or even strangers in the urban areas should be condemned. Girls should not be kept in orphanages with the evil and end purpose of getting them pregnant and selling their babies. Child-marriage should be discouraged. Local barbaric customs and religion extremism labelling young girls as witches should be stopped. All the girls in the IDP camps and correctional centres/remand homes should be properly looked after.
Who cares about the Progress of the Girl-Child?

Protection of the girl-child is the gateway to her progress. Progress in this context is a state where girls should be able to rely and have faith in the government to get attention and justice. When the world becomes a safer place for the girl-child to thrive or when resources exist to tackle the current challenges facing the girl-child and uplift her status, then there is progress. Nevertheless, it is the government’s duty to protect its vulnerable young girls. The Nigerian Legal Framework however cares because there are more than enough laws which protects the rights of the girl-child in the Child Rights Act of 2003 and Section 17(3)(f) of the 1999 Constitution. Similar law also exist in different states of the federation. In Lagos State for example, the Criminal Law of Lagos State of 2011 protects the Girl-Child by prosecuting offenders who violate the following provisions:

*Section 135 – Indecent treatment of a child is 7 years imprisonment.
*Section 137– Defilement of a Child is imprisonment for life.
*Section 138 –Householder permitting defilement of a child in his premises is 14 years jail term.
*Section 139 – Allowing a child to live in a brothel is 6 months imprisonment or payment of a fine of N90, 000. 00
*Section 141 – Abduction of a girl under18 years with intent to have sexual intercourse with her is 2 years imprisonment
*Section 205 – Duty of Head of Family Head to provide necessaries of life. e.g food, clothing, accommodation, and medical care.
*Section 199 – In exacting discipline, parents/guardian may correct his child/ward for misconduct or disobedience but must not exceed limits. The discipline must be reasonable having regard to his age, physical and mental condition. Punishment is one year imprisonment.
*Section 276 – Fine is N100, 000. 00 for desertion of children.
*Section 277 – Desertion of a pregnant girl incur N45,000.00 fine and duty to incur medical expenses, food expenses, reasonable shelter and other necessaries.

Aside from the laws, there are designated child-helplines and government ministries/ support agencies where girl-child victims can get help and lodge complaints through specialized police family units, Family Courts, Ministry of Youth and Social Development, Ministry of Women Affairs & Poverty Alleviation. The Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team (DSVRT), Office of the Public Defender, Mirabel Centre, African Women Lawyers Association (AWLA Nigeria), International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA), Human Development Initiatives (HDI) and other NGOs all play appreciable roles which impact positively on the girl-child. It is on record that Lagos State is the first state in Nigeria to open a sex offenders register after former Governor, Mr. Babatunde Fashola signed an executive order for anyone to mandatorily report those involved in actual or suspected child abuse. Under the Fundamental Enforcement Rules of 2009 also, anybody can sue on behalf of the child that is being molested.

While some progress has been recorded on issues like girls’ protection and education, there is still a lot of work to be done for them to reach their full potential. Some state governments are yet to domesticate the Child Rights Act. According to Hon. Justice Mary Peter-Odili at the NIALS Founders’ Day Lecture in 2013, the failure of the executive arm of government to make concrete investment geared towards putting in place the right policy and mechanism for implementation has forever been a big challenge. Emphasis on the progress of the girl-child will be enhanced

The Solutions are not far-fetched. To enhance the progress of the girl-child, we must have a girl-focused relevant data to highlight the challenges girls’ face. This will enable the government to keep track of their progress and make a checklist with a view to fill the gaps and ultimately provide solutions to the challenges. This is what UNICEF calls the Global Girls Data Movement. For example, the Lagos State government has devised a roadmap of information which has given birth to a Strategic Action Plan (SAP) for marginalized out-of-school girls resident in the 100 slum areas in Lagos. Clearly this is in line with Article 2 of CRC which provides that States must respect and ensure the rights set forth in the Convention while the child’s best interests should be of primary consideration in all actions. It is important to note that ‘best interest’ does not only include providing our girls with good clothes, food, iphones and other e-gadgets, rather her happiness and psychological development also matter because it can affect her stability and security. (Especially when she attains the age of reasoning between 6 years and 17 years as held in a decided case).

There is need for good governance. At all times and especially during this present economic recession, the government at all levels should implement economic empowerment policies that would create jobs for parents or guardians to take care of their daughters. In Nigeria there is a lot of pressure as some girls fall into the dependency group and productive force at the same time. Government should therefore look into initiating scholarship assistance schemes for girls who excel in academics and sponsor others for vocational skills.
Finally, it is very important that the girl-child is enlightened about certain rights and priviledges for her to be adequately protected.

This is possible through creating the girl-child awareness on all the issues earlier mentioned. Indeed there is a clarion call on everyone to help enhance their lives by involving not only family and community members, but also all policy-decision makers who must establish a convincing attitude alongside with the laws on ground, by walking the talk! In September 2016, the Governor of Lagos State Mr. Akinwunmi Ambode led an all-male walk against sexual and gender based violence in the State. The Federal Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development have also put in place a technical working group of all stakeholders to end child marriage while the Governor of Sokoto State, Mr. Aminu Tambuwal recently laid the foundation for the construction of a new Secondary school in Balle, headquarters of Gudu LGA which is the only Council without a secondary school in Nigeria! One can imagine the plight of the young girls living in this village.

As we celebrate Nigeria at 56, it calls to question why millions of girls are still out of school. It calls for everyone to question the where-about of the kidnapped Chibok school girls. It calls to advocate for the advancement and fair treatment of the girl-child in our immediate environment and beyond. It calls to be extra vigilant over the girl-child’s’ basic human rights and to continue addressing the consciousness of adequate protection for the girl-child. By doing these and more, it is submitted that adherence to the principles of the girl-child rights as human rights, parental supervision of the girl-child and further investing positively in the girl-child ensures progress and security for our nation, for when the girl-child makes progress, the world equally makes progress.

*Mrs. Mandy Asagba & Mrs. Oluwatomi Ajayi are Legal Practitioners & Members of the African Women Lawyers Association (AWLA Nigeria)